Hi Nonni just put the insimenator in your downloads folder and then you'll see it in your game.
I'm quite new at this myself (only since July) but when I do play I enjoy many of the mods from here, MATY, & MTS2. I was given the double deluxe recently but haven't installed it yet (since I read on maty that it has the suckrom software) and because my comp needs to be fixed.
Anyhoo I aged all my nannies down to adult (which stopped the nutty behavior in most of them) with insim. Although the insimenator is not supported by its' traitor creator, many that like the mod wouldn't mind peer to peer sharing on how to use it, it's not the mod's fault its' creator was a jerk.
When I become less feverish (got the flu) I'll read how to install the game without securom & pray I get it right

. It's addicting though...pm me if you like I'll help if I can k?