Official GBLT Thread
caffeinated.joy:
If she spends so much being mean to other people, I can only guess she does it to make herself feel better. If that's the case, then there's something going on there. It doesn't make her actions right by any means or excusable, but think, for a moment, of how sad it is knowing the only way a person can feel any happiness is by knocking other people down. I can certainly understand being upset. Being gay, bi, lesbian or transexual doesn't hurt anyone. Just because some of my friends are, doesn't mean I automatically have to. Giving gays and lesbians the same rights as any other human beings just makes sense. I honestly don't believe anyone has the right to insult or belittle another person for their race, gender, sexual preferences or physical limitations at all. This sin things makes me roll my eyes. Seriously if they're worried about sin, giving gays and lesbians the right to marry makes sense. That erases one big sin right there.
You have every right to be upset or even angry, however you can choose how to deal with it. Years ago I learned a number of good things from someone who became a mentor to me. One of his pearls of wisdom was we get upset and angry and this is fine. We can't help how we feel about thing, but we can, however, have a say in what we do about how we feel.
Katie:
Exactly! That whole sin this just was like...." what!?"
I understand but, ya know, I am a very hyper active little teenager, so I can't control my anger very well, I try, but I'm no good at it... :-\
Everyone should have rights though.
This person actually has a pretty sweet life though, I mean, she has an older brother, mom, and and dad who love her, and they have a good deal of money (wayy more than my family does) her house isn't falling apart, and no one has had a serious illness in her family, she's just flat out mean.
caffeinated.joy:
Well, at the end of the day, does the opinion of one person whom you don't even like really matter? :) As long as your friends and family accept you, that's what's important. Even more importantly, as long as you can look at yourself and like what's there is what matters.
Katie:
Your good at this! :D And your right, I accept myself, and so do the people I love most. :D
caffeinated.joy:
*grins* I had a good teacher. Thank you. And there you go. That is what matters. 1love
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