Since it's an item hosted on TSR, you can probably be confident in assuming they won't look too kindly at it being mangled (so to speak) and shared. Given who the creator is, you can be double sure. They're not at all friendly about sharing over there.
I found a
free Newsea headband that was converted from TS3 to TS2, though still is for female sims. If there is a possibility someone can convert the headband for male sims and make it look more like the picture below, then I will appreciate it immensely.

Here's the download link to the converted file
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