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Sweetdey26:
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How would you feel if one of the couples stated that they didn't want you to have any contact with the child or them after the birth at all?
I haven't decided what kind of adoption I want, and I stated that before. I will be happy to share that with you as soon as I decide.
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And are you planning on telling your parents, and if so, when? And do you think that they would want you to keep the baby, or that they would agree with your decisions?
I still have time to decide. I'm still trying to come to grips with giving Kiwi up for adoption. I do feel that my parents would ask me to reconsider my decision to give Kiwi up for adoption, therefore I'm not sure how or when I will tell them.
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Also, are you positively sure you won't fall in love with Kiwi as soon as you see him/her after the birth and decide to keep him/her anyways?
Honestly, I'm already deeply in love with Kiwi, she/he is a product of the love the I have for Blake. It is because I deeply love her/him that I know this is the best choice for Kiwi. As her birth mother, I have to gave her the gift of parents that can and will put her needs first. I have said this before and it seems I need to repeat it, this is and will be the hardest thing I have ever done.
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And lastly, you already told us the dad didn't feel like any contact should be there, how are you planning on getting to know your child later on, when you're in a relationship with Kiwi's dad, that doesn't want you to have contact?
Blake comes from a big family he has 6 siblings. He always wanted a big family, so when he found out we were pregnant he had mixed feelings. He said it was the best feeling he ever had, but we both had plans and we are not in a stable enough place in our lives to give Kiwi the home she/he deserves at this time. He knows that seeing Kiwi will make him want to put all the dreams he has on the back burner to raise her/him. Being a good parent means doing what's best for the child, and that, Blake and I agree is giving Kiwi a stable loving family.
oddball011:
Are you willing to adopt the baby to a single parent or are you looking for couples?
Sweetdey26:
I am open the single parents. I understand just because you don't have a partner doesn't mean you'll love the baby any less.
audrieajones:
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I am open the single parents. I understand just because you don't have a partner doesn't mean you'll love the baby any less.
well said sweet
Poppenhuis:
Thank you for the answers. :)
I'm sorry if you got the idea I didn't listen to the things you said, I just needed some clarification on various points.
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