this may take a moment, had to cue up the clean installer to find my ton o' hacks in my 12,192 downloads

abduction pregnancy male & female
abort bed making (which might be responsible for the probs i have with beds when i re-enter lots where sims were sleeping)
anti watch out
anti weather reaction
authorized personnel only
carpool fix
custom skintone selector (added after i had the problem, so not guilty either)
coffee cup hack (which i don't think is workin with seasons anyway)
no wolves allowed sign
deep sleeper by igor & sons
no hire shop employee wants
dont walk away while cooking
fight mrs crumplebottom (which i just removed now, since it runs too slow on community lots for me to ever let my sims go to them anyway)
insimenator 2.6 (of course, but my friend has it too, so i know it's not my culprit)
interact two greet
job ltws for all aspirations (also added after the prob started)
lizz loves hacks (all 4)
lobo nanny
marhis walkbys always (another my friend uses with no problem i believe)
marriage traditional (problem-less friend has this 1 too)
move away from instruments
vampire indoors decay hack (also used by friend)
vampire nighttime decay hack (friend also has no problem with this 1)
never break
no more police crashing parties
no 20k handouts
no gizmo wants
no greek madness
no influence obsession
no teleport puddle (only have this cuz the yellow pee hack won't work without it)
no uni protect
no vanish in dorms
new anti social worker hack
pee standing hack
phone hack talk module
phone line controller
risky woohoo (bed/public/tub) ...(also dunno if this one works with seasons, since i haven't seen it kick in, but it's only meant to work a certain percent of the time, obviously)
vamp kiss more interactions (another my friend uses in seasons without a problem)
sleep on floor at home
woohoo teens 6f ofb (i know it sez ofb but this one does work with both pets & seasons)
yellow pee
skintone selector inteen
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this may be related too: when i tried to download the so-called seasons patch, it gave me an error & sed it couldnt read from the disk, or some such nonsense.....so yeah, as you can see, it's a little difficult to figure out which, if any of these could be causin my probs, as i once had a non-hack, just some custom shirt, that actually made the whole game crash when a character wearing it tried to get a job, tell me that makes any sense!

so yeah, anyone have an idea if any of these are the actual likely culprit?