Do you have CEP installed?
get it here if you don't:
http://www.modthesims2.com/showthread.php?t=92541If you do have it, try clicking on one of the beds in the catalogue where you know a recolor should be and scroll through if you have to until you come upon objects marked with a *.
Those are your recolors.
Make sure you have show custom content enabled for your game.