To camouflage themselves, fairy don't use magic--it would deplete their energy. What they do is mimic nature, like so many other of nature's "hiders".
Some have wings that look like leaves and hide in the branches of the tree they are mimicking. But most mimic common insects and we are so occupied with our day-today routines, that we would glance and would assume it was just the usual act of pollinating. It is. But have you taken a good look at those doing the pollinating? You sure they're insects?
Thanks to Lord Dragonstone for his Alpha Wing Mesh found on the SS2 here:
http://www.sapphiresims2.com/showthread.php?t=19726Recolors by me
All other work, including the skintone by me not available in this post--sorry.