There is acctually a pull tab(where the choosen colors are) and you just pull that tab to what every objects you want to match(the object will become highlighted or glow). Next time I play, I will take a picture of the tab and post it so you all know what Im talking about. But that is the easiest ways to make matching decor, but be forwarned its not perfect, tables will look like the seats, the bookshelves will look like wallpaper.

Have you tried to move the object to the trash bin in live mode? I know thats all you have to do to place things in the trash with out having to use your sims or in buy mode, you can even do that from the back-pack.

My Sims never place a bottle on the ground are you sure this is for TS3 and not TS2 that your having the problem.

Ok, first thing you do is get your friendships up with eachother, the ghost should show up in the other Sim's friend list. Then use the cheat: testingcheatsenabled true, go to the ghost in the friends listing and raise the value up so they become BF's.
If that doesn't work and you still don't have the Science quest, try working on your logic skill and then you should get the quest.
When you get the quest, pick up the gravestone and place it in the Sim's(who got the quest) backpack, then go to the Science Building, after spending about an hour or 2 (sim time) in the building your ghost will come out before the other sim will, and you will be able controll them once they exit the building.

I hope this works for you!

I hate to say this, but just start a new game, when your game loads to menu just select the +sign on the right to start a new game(if you don't know about it)...LOL.

Go to this post in the Discussion's area here
http://www.insimenator.org/index.php/topic,106135.0.html

Just delete the word .backup while the game is not playing!

Squinge, you forgot to mention that the ghosts have to be from your own personal graveyard/gravestone/headstone, ie. Goth's or Crubbelbottom(Sorry if I spelled it wrong but you know who I mean) have a headstone on their lots. The game for some strange reason ( ) will not let you pick up headstones from the graveyard.

You will have to go to edit town from the in-game menu, then select the active house or a different house and it will have a button that says split-up house. Then they will show up on the clipboard.

I took out everything and replaced the original resource.cfg file and it still didn't work for me. I guess I will just have to wait till its better.

The reason there are no changing table is because, like the changing table, changing a diaper will raise their hygiene, no more diapers either. Toddlers and babies don't even get baths any more.

LOL, I found out that if you take the remains (grave) to the Science Building for an "Opportunity," the grave will turn into a playable ghost. Right now Im playing with Lolita Goth who is not related to any of the Goth members, but yet she is a Goth(YA Died from Electrical accident). I moved her out of the Goth house and can play her like any other sim. She has wishes and Long Term wish, Im guessing she could die again because she has motives just like the others. Im thinking about creating some YA male to kill and live with her to see what kind of babies to children she will have. SO far I have gotten Agnus Crumblebottom prego by her dead hubby (grave at her house, cannot bring home ghost from cemetery), but the baby has not turned to ghost yet, I don't thing he will.

I've been playing with Lolita Goth, she has no ties to the Goth family but yet she is a Goth. I moved her out of the house and I have been playing with her, She want to be Mayor, which would be interesting to see. She plays just like a regular sim, she has motives and wishes. I assume that she can be killed and become a ghost again, I havent tried to kill her, mostly because it kinda interesting to watch her. At night the ghost music comes on, but she doesnt do anything that an "NPC" ghost would do. She's just like a regular sim now, just see through, no one gets scared when they see or while she is sitting at the park with her guitar. I wonder if I can get another ghost(unrelated to her) to see what would happen. I would like to see if 2 ghosts have a baby, would the baby be like a ghost or human. I have also gotten Agnus prego by her ghost hubby(with out taking his remains to get revived), but no ghost baby, maybe that will change when they get older.

If you have access to a grave(not in cemetery). You will get an option to bring the remains to the Science Facility. They restored the ghost but not as a person, she is still a ghost but she is added to your family, can she do every thing your family does she caries he tombstone with her in her inventory and you can send her back to the netherworld at any time.. She is not alive but she is, she has wishes, a lifetime wish, motives and you can change her clothes. Im thinking of saving her and uploading her for others to play with.

It does that where every you go, if you go to a community lot, it will be in your sims inventory and all you have to do is - Left-click on the car and they will use it. They do the same for bikes too.