Personally, I don't really think 'emo' can be a lifestyle. It's acctually a genre of music, that later on it became a popularity or fashion statement. To me emo will either be potato(emo is potato in japanese) or a genre of utterly screaming your depressions into a microphone way of life. xD
I hate pretty much all lables. To me, they're useless, and un needed.No one is a can of soup. o.o But I hate it when people mix up goth, for emo. Or Skater, for punk. Ect. As said by StupidFriday. As I said earlier, not need and overated.
You can try looking at GOS, they have some old time grungy kinds. I have a old fashioned one in my game that I got with a house. Just search phones,Silent Hill or Steampunk furniture? Sorry I'm not much help.