I'll try that and see what happens.
thanks!

Proposer is a created sim.
Proposee is a townie I think  (Jane Stacks) she was dropped on my lawn by the matchmaker.  (which was a good laugh by the way)
I've never seen the girl before so I don't know where she came from- is she a Uni addition?  maybe thats my problem.  Was able to woohoo and so on and all other adult interactions so I'm thinking she's an adult-
Thanks for the help by the way- meant to say that earlier.
I'm not really sweatin this one too much as I am just trying to find out all the little things the new expansion brings in.  But for future I would like to know so that I can get her added to my household

hmm...
nope was the single character household so the size wasn't the issue- and I was controling that character.
My only thought was that maybe it was because I waited a day to have the wedding party.
That or the fact that I first invited friends over and then had the 2 wedding guests come thinking that like before they would all just attend the wedding.
Perhaps that was the problem.
I'll mess around with it some more and if it works yeah- if not- no loss

I know someone was just posting about this and it was move to the inteen forum...but I am not using inteen so I'm going to have to ask again
I just tried to get my sim to marry....did the suprise proposal, and then bought a wedding arch but when I clicked on the arch- there was no option available.  Fiencee did not join family, and it says they are engaged on the friends list.
I do have the newest UV version of the insiminator DEST.   Wondering if this is it?  or did I miss something somewhere.
Was able to throw a wedding party- which sucked because there was no wedding!
Any thoughts?