Spawn the user control, select Destination Menu... then Remove All Menus.
This post not only has the download for the InSimenator but links to all the documentation to let you know what it can do and how to do it.
Thanks! I took off all mods, now Im re-adding them one at a time (assuming I can find them again) to see how it plays with each one. I put the mailbox hack and the OBJ version of InSIM and its playing just fine. If only I couldve narrowed down the hack that was the problem causer and just deleted that one but thus wasnt the case. *sigh* But thanks for your help!