If you've got "Freetime" , try first to start your game without any hack or mod. Especially the Inteenimator might stop you game. Are you sure all the meshes of your downloads are compatible with the new EP?
Yeah!!! I just got Freetime and it's the one I'm playing on....my mods are all good, they're compatible and only require Sims 2 and Nightlife, which I have. It's weird because my mods all worked fine until I installed Freetime, then they were unclickable and not working.....
So what do I do? Relocate my downloads folder, play the game, and put the folder back in again?