Thanks, they looked like such a lovely couple at first.  I think I'll make them make up... but who knows?  I might get someone to fight him or kill him.  How the couple interacts in the game will convince me one way or the other.  I agree with hardwaretoad, though:  he's a bastard for hitting such a beautiful woman that's helping him pay the bills![/
Do you mean killyourself, or can sims kill each other?