I found a set of male to female conversions of these on the Sims Cave. just in case someone is as interested in them as i am. they were in the Others section.

If anyone can try to direct me in any way to try this to do this myself it would help to!!! ~faint Noob cries for help~

I really love these two hairs from Sshodan: the Flowing Ponytail found at http://www.modthesims.info/download.php?t=182762  and Vampire Hair http://www.modthesims.info/download.php?t=169540. I really want to make them convert for female sims to be able to use them as well. I've had no luck myself   and was wondering if anyone would like to help me out. I would be very thankful.