Hello! I've been looking for a mod of some sort that affects whether or not Sims are aware of affairs, particularly woo-hoos. Normally if a Sim woo-hoos with someone they're not supposed to while their significant other is on the same lot, the SO is somehow telepathically aware of this and runs over, resulting in a lot of unpleasant slapping and screaming and gnashing of teeth.
Realistically the only way an SO on the other side of the lot should be aware of illicit woo-hooing is if, in rather crude terms, the sex is very kinky or very loud.

Would anyone happen to know of a mod that changes it so an SO on the other side of the lot wouldn't be aware of an affair? Perhaps making it so they'd have to be in the same room as the woo-hooing to be aware? I've searched a number of sites (modthesims2, Insimenator, MATY) but haven't been able to find anything remotely like that. Then again, my search skills may not be up to par.

I appreciate any help you guys can give! Thanks.