OH ok, I think that was my problem.  I was clicking around for that little baby, til found it.  It's only with one sim family.   The others are not having that problem.

Now I got a new problem, ever since I had all the skills of one sim family up.  Every item in the sims house, like the toilet, Computer, sink, Piano, Bathtub keeps getting broken after every use of that item, it's out of Order.

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Anyways I bought the The sims 2 double Deluxe twice.   This my second one.  The first was totally smashed up from Hacks.    So now I am having similar problems with this one.  I put less hacks on the new one.  But anyways I am have problem installing certain items in the house.  Like Toilets, and other things that go against the wall.  When I try to put something near, or against the wall.  It flashes red saying I cannnot put an Object there.   This goes the same for Beds.  Even if the bed isn't touching the wall.  But it's in a perfe4ct size room for the bed, it feels like it touching the wall. So it also turns red.   Another problem is setting the tables and chairs, it seems that the chairs and Tables are blocking there way.  They complain something about not being able to sit there or something.   So can I please get help.   OH also before I hacked I can't get the bodyshop to work.  Also I'm stuck playing the store edition of the sims 2.   I want to play the double deluxe, and not the store version.