Could someone please advise me on what to do. I downloaded a female sim who wears glasses. However when I went into family creator to put her in the game she does not have her glasses and I found them in the glasses for males only. I'm very fond of this Sim and would like her to have the correct glasses it spoils the effect if she doesn't. I looked at SIMPE but I can't make heads or tails of it. I would really like to know more how to manipulate objects but I don't know where to start.  Thanks,
                                                 Confused and light years behind.

I hope someone can help me please. I don't know what I did or how to fix it. A week or so ago I downloaded Rasputina Lattimore(she is so great) along with quite a few meshes from Martaxl. When I open my game if you look at her from the screen where it shows all your families she's coal black from the neck down. If you go into the sims creator she appears normal but all the outfits I installed for her have arms and legs that are black. Body Shop is the same way. I assumed I was missing a mesh and started searching but I can't find anything that I missed. I also downloaded 2 more female normal size sims and they are the same black from the neck down.This makes me think I must have deleted something I shouldn't have.  Also in Body Shop some of the pictures do not correspond to the correct sim. Thanks for your help.