Yer ok then but im not talking about the people on the site
Im talking about how hard this site is for people who have heard of the site but dont know the address....just the name
And im sure if you read the post corectly you would find this post is about brainstorming ways that the site can be better advertised.

So all im saying is its hard to find
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Does pulling your Downloads folder out (not deleting it...just pulling it out to somewhere else, like your desktop) make the problem go away? Then chances are you have a either a borked piece of cc or hack/mod conflicting. You can make your life so much easier by keeping all your hacks/mods in a subfolder within your downloads folder, so you can pull the subfolder out and run your game with ordinary cc to see if that works. Something else I do is keep any cc (not mods...they still go in their own subfolder) I've downloaded two weeks ago or less in another subfolder called "new". That way, if I suspect it's new cc...I can pull it out and test my game again.
Are all your mods confirmed by the creator of the mod to be compatible or up to date with the latest ep you have?
Hunting down bad cc: There's only one surfire way to do it. Search and destroy. Best way is to divide your downloads in half. Put the first half in and test your game, then close the game, take out the first 1/2, put in the second 1/2 and repeat. Ideally one half should work fine while the other doesn't. Take the half that breaks your game and divide it in half. Repeat the process until you've found the culprit. Yes, it's an involved process but it's certainly better than testing your cc one download at a time.
Go into My Documents/EA Games and delete the following files: cigen.package, accessory.cache and group.cache. Sometimes these files can get corrupt over time and cause various problems with your game, not limited to the game opening slowly or not at all, or bodyshop refusing to play nice. Don't worry, the game will regenerate fresh, clean copies when you restart your game.
Is your game patched?