I'm not saying she will do it for you, but maybe if you make everything else ok on the mesh, she might help you with the turtleneck. I've got the impression she is a very kind and helpful person.
Nixnivis (http://www.modthesims2.com/member.php?u=555429) have made some awesome First Contact uniforms for admirals, officers and cadets. They would be fantastic for the athletic and slim bodybuilder bodies. Maybe she wouldn't mind if you asked her for permission either?
I would like to have more options on an acessory equipent for males, such as the one Crammyboy made but with all the additional variations and sizes made by Beosboxboy with additional hairs.