yes I did and it didn't come up with anything.  Or at least I didn't have any problems that mentioned this mod being in conflict.  It mentioned some stuff with the xxxsims mods but didn't mention anything else.  I'm sure it was this mod cause I did extensive testing.  At first I added this, write novels faster, paint faster, casual clothes at work, more caffeine, and new lifetime wants. At first I figured the new lifetime wants was the problem because it messed with want values so I removed it first and still had the problem.  Then I removed the others one by one and once I removed this one everything was fine again.  Then I tested by just putting them back in one by one, saving this one for last, and all the others worked fine together until I put in this one.

I was having trouble with this mod.  It was making my sims not eat.  Theyd grab a plate, sit down and then get up again before taking a bite.  Then they'd go grab another plate.  They'd have starved to death if I hadn't taken out the mod.  Anybody else have this problem?

I'm crashing when it says crash-proofing parties.  Will same advice work for me?
If So where do I find the groups.cache, accessories.cache, and Thumbnail/*.thumbnail files?  I came across the cigen.package file in my downloads.

type /familyFunds (your sim family's last name here) +(amount of money)

make sure you don't put a space between the plus sign and the amount, and also you can't have more than 9,999,999 in money.

I'm having some trouble myself, I also went on a downloading spree.  I ran the conflict tool and got no conflicts.  I tried removing all the new content and it still crashes.  I tried emptying my downloads folder and it still crashes.  It always crashes at the same point, on the loading screen when it says crash-proofing parties, how ironic.  I have Sims 2 double deluxe which comes with nightlife.  I have no other EPs.  Anybody got an idea?