It's quite a while since somebody posted in here, but i just started playing the sims 3 and that's the reason that i'm testng and trying to use some mods.
If you want the lifefruit an easy way go to MTS and look for the 'allfishandfruitsbuyable' mod. You can then buy all fruits, fish and books at the shops.
And there is a mod which gives you the debug cheat at the game start whitout cheating manually.

Here are the links: http://forums.modthesims.info/browse.php?tag=buy&go=Go&gs=2&f=414&gs=2

http://forums.modthesims.info/browse.php?tag=books&go=Go&gs=2&f=414&gs=2

Look here: http://www.insimenator.org/index.php/topic,24166.0.html

Does anybody know of an invisible ballet bar?

Try this side: http://www.lyran.net/ts2/

I don't know, if that's the right one, but they're close to them.

Try the BackAlleySims (adultside - sorry, no direct link).

Or look for D.L.Mulsow's Sim-Antics.

Lost Utopia is another side.

Two other sides with a lot of antique funiture are http://www.vitasims2.com/sims2.htm or http://moonsims.asi.org/dh-sims-site/ .

The beretmesh is by http://www.rosesims2.net/  (accessory, page 21). But i don't know who made the light color.

I checked the mesh and saw that it was done by jasumi who was a creator at Lost Utopian. I send an e-mail to her/him and asked if it is still avaiable. We have to wait for the answer.

I'm not sure if it was from vitasims. It just reminds me off some stuff i saw on that side. But i'm still looking if i can find it somewhere else. It looks close to some victorian funiture.

Have a look here: http://dlmsimantics.livejournal.com/ or http://www.all4sims.de/board/jgs_portal.php?sid=

You can try it at GaySimsClub2 and MaleOrderBride too. They adult sides so no links.

They arn't there at the moment. I asked engelchen if these clothes will be up there but i don't get an answer yet.

Maybe it's http://www.vitasims2.com/sims2.htm .

I just saw one here: http://www.affinitysims.com/forum/index.php/board,18.0.html

Try simscave ( http://www.simscave.com/index.php?action=forum ). The get special threads for Asian sides or lost and gone stuff.

I have a CPU tattoo skin on the adult side. Look for Mercy Thompson.