I would love a toddler bed or rug similar to the ones designed for sims 2 so that my little ones can go to bed themselves and get up themselves. My own 2 yr old has his own bed why can't sim toddlers?

I just installed WA and now I cant feed babies, every time I try the sim just puts the baby down or back in the crib. I have had to use the mailbox trick (much lamer than typing maxmotives btw) to keep my young. Moving houses ect didn't fix the issue. Any one else having this? I have the sliders from Jonah at MTS and Chaavik's children make meals and unlocked channels hack. Those are the only two I think could interfere but I also have hacks to make the fish and fruit all buyable, even the rare ones from WA. Any feedback you guys can offer would be helpful. All my babies were born in the hospital if that helps you any. Also they are jumping from their cribs to next to the crib when one parent comes home.

Ok so I have been searching for an aging mod to lengthen my sim lives. I found a lot of them at MTS but none of the ones that did what I need (double life span) were compatable with all EPs and insim and inteen. Since those are the two hacks I use the most I need to find something if it is out there. I have looked at Simlogical but I dont have SimPE to modify it to my needs. I have a ton of hacks but am utterly useless when it comes to making my own stuff. I can't even use photoshop with out my husband's help. Any ideas/suggestions would be great. I am trying to find something as close to the following as possible (doesnt have to be exact I am not picky):
Babies about 20 days, Toddlers about 60 ect. I want them to have a long life but not too long since I do play legacy style .

I used to have this program my brother found that allowed you to do all the things the Insiminator does, but it let you change the sims skin/hair/eye colors. This program allowed you to back up your neighborhood files with a click, change skill levels, gender preferences, personality ect. It was a pay program that I lost years ago because the original creator didn't update it for pets. The problem I am running into is that I play legacy families, but use mostly custom skins and eyes that start to take over too much. I get to the point were I see the same skins over and over and over because all the kids have em. I was looking at the skin changer mods but none work with all the custom skins I have, and they leave the issue with the eyes. Any suggestions to help with this problem would be appreciated since I have no idea if the program I remember even still exists or if I can even use it with all my hacks. Thanks.

Ok, I found this years ago at a pay site and loved it so much I paid for the required month just to get it. It was a mod that put babies in a sleeper that was a conversion of the toddler sleeper. The site was a pay site, and it had a lot of other great baby items (it actually seemed to focus only on baby/toddler/children items) but this sleeper was so awesomely done. If you bathed your baby the clothes came off (it worked like the maxis diaper). I don't know if the site is even around anymore but I would love that little sleeper again. The site had it pink, blue and yellow just like the toddler ones, but you could only have one in game at a time. Has any one else seen this mod or recognize the site? I lost it in a recent computer crash it is one of the pay items I didn't save on my jump drive.