What I did exactly which I don't know if it was the right way or not was this...
I installed the hack and because it said you have to let her deliver the lamp again for her to be fixed I forced the lamp delivery the only way I know how...I typed in boolprop testingcheatsenabled true and shift clicked the mail box...went to other I think it was and force lamp delivery...she came...she left the lamp etc. etc. Right after she left the lot I sent my sims downtown to check and see if it was fixed and it still said dismiss...
The second time after I forced delivery...when she left the lot I had my sim call her other to the house for a 'regular' visit...she worked fine at the house...dismissed her and went downtown but STILL the downtown gypsy after showing up only has the dismiss option when clicked...
SO am I doing something wrong? Did I force delivery of the lamp the wrong way? And if so what is the correct way to force delivery of the lamp...I never had a problem with the gypsy bringing lamps over on a 'regular' visit...the only problem I had with the gypsy on downtown lots...my romance sims can't buy love potion