Gone through the launcher dozens of times looking specifically for it (either it's mislabeled or for some reason isn't showing up), but I can't find it, and therefore can't remove it that way.

As for the folder, I did that, but those weird bodies still show up.  That's why I want the names of them/sites they came from/etc.: so I can see just what files I'm looking for, or what they're named in the launcher, or whatever.  If I know that, I should be able to pinpoint them, as opposed to looking for a needle in a haystack.

Looks interesting, but...isn't that for TS2?  I need it for TS3.

Ironically, I'm asking not because I want them, but because I want to get rid of them.  I downloaded a few sims from TS3's main site, only to realize too late that they were transgender/crossdressers/whatever.  I now have a handful of boots, shirts, and more for women on my men, but they show up randomly (I think some may be default replacements).  I can't delete them in-game, and I can't seem to find which folders they're in, either.  Even if I create a man using all standard clothing (i.e. MALE clothing), half the time, when he gets in the shower, skinny dips, or is otherwise naked, I see a female t-shirt shape, often w/ those boots.  What's worse is what it does to toddlers (it's all distorted like some horrible monster=thing).

I have a lot of custom content installed, so I'd rather not disable all of it (that would mess up quite a lot, from hair to clothes to skin).  However, if someone can point me in the direction of the origin of these files, I can look them up in my system and DESTROY THEM PERMANENTLY. Thanks in advance for any and all help!

I know there's the "no jealousy" lifetime reward, but I want some legalized polygamy, where a woman can have multiple legal husbands (instead of a husband + extramarital lovers), or vice versa.  Could anyone mod that?  BTW, I have the following expansion packs: World Adventures, High End Loft Stuff, Ambitions, Late Night, and Generations.