WCIF...A Big Funiture Set, 2 Mods, and a Program-Thing. (All Found)

[Sane Enough]

It was a really big set and it had bunk beds, and a desk that you could pick books from.
And there's a mod that you can buy clothing for free from a coat rack that looks like the seasons one.
There's also a mod where Sims automatically wash their hands after using the toilet.
And a program thing that tells you what mods conflict with each other.

[caffeinated.joy]

"Shop At Home" Hacked Coat Hook (not the Seasons coat hook, but it is a coat hook)
Auto-Flush Toilets+Wash Hands
Hack Conflict Detection Utility (Sims 2 > Programs) Note: This program doesn't find guaranteed mod conflicts, as many assume. Rather, it tells you which mods change the same behaviors and have the potential to conflict. It's a good starting point if you have a problem, though.

Google is great.

As for the item set, that's a pretty vague description. Can you give more detail?

[Sane Enough]

Thanks for those links! And I found the set!
It's the The Grand Trianon Collection by The "Dream Team"