A Home For Baby- An Adoption Contest

[Sweetdey26]

This is a sanctuary where the contestants of A Home For Baby- An Adoption Contest can come and ask Kammie questions or vent their frustrations.


You can be honest without being judged. Please ABSOLUTELY NO InSim BASHING!!!

[Jagerjaques]

Why do you want an open adoption?

[Kels]

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Don't worry, I didn't get into it in time.

Good luck everyone.

[brooke_82]

Kammie - What are you looking for in adoptive parents?

[Sweetdey26]

Why do you want an open adoption?

I would like to know how the baby is, even if I can't raise him/her myself. I would like the baby to know I did what was best for him/her at that time. So, one day when the time is right we can be reunited.

What are you looking for in adoptive parents?

Loving, honest, understanding, considerate people that will cherish the wonderful gift I will be sharing with them.

[realmask316]

Kammie how can the perspective adoptive parents make this easier for you?

[Sweetdey26]

Kammie how can the perspective adoptive parents make this easier for you?

The perspective adoptive parents can make this easier for me by being open to me. I want to get to know you and your family. I also want you to understanding my plight, this is the hardest decision I've ever had to make.

[LilKittikins]

Do you plan on having children later in life? If so, what kind of relationship would you want them to have with this child?

[Mandie]

How open do you want it to be?  Would you expect to have visitations like divorced parents?

[Sweetdey26]

Do you plan on having children later in life? If so, what kind of relationship would you want them to have with this child?

Yes, I do want kids in the future. Although, I'd like to have some place in the baby's life I don't want to disrupt it, I think when the the child is old enough and the time is right and if both myself and the adoptive parents want to have her or him interact I'd be more than happy to agree. But on the other hand if they feel that it's not in his/her best interests, I'll will limit the interaction to something we both can agree on.

[Sweetdey26]

How open do you want it to be?  Would you expect to have visitations like divorced parents?

 

No, I don't want to disrupt the life she/he has with his/her family. Just the occasional visit, pictures, letter, and video if possible. I may have given birth to her/him but the adoptive parents will be their family.

[leanne27_h]

Do you think giving up the baby will make your relationship with Blake stronger or less easy to cope with?

[Sweetdey26]

Do you think giving up the baby will make your relationship with Blake stronger or less easy to cope with?

This kind of situation can effect even the strongest of relationships, I'd like to say that it will make us stronger for going through it. But at this point, that is a bit presumptuous on my part. My grandmother always says, "What won't kill you makes you stronger!" ,I really hope she's right.

[Jagerjaques]

Although you've stated that Blake is supportive, how much contact does he wish with the baby?

[Sweetdey26]

I just talked to Blake and to my surprise he thinks that it's best if neither of us see the baby after it's born. He thinks that it will be too hard. Well, I plan on keeping in touch with the family, no matter what.