A Home For Baby- An Adoption Contest

[oddball011]

I am open the single parents. I understand just because you don't have a partner doesn't mean you'll love the baby any less.

 Awww so considerate

How would you feel about if the parents that adopt your child already have children around the same age?

[Sweetdey26]

How would you feel about if the parents that adopt your child already have children around the same age?

I have no problem with that either, that may even make things more easier for Kiwi in the future. Having someone in your age group to talk to, play with and share is always fun.

[oddball011]

im just wondering , what happens when we are done asking questions?

[DollyLlama]

Kammie,
       You hear about women who put their children up for adoption and then some time later after the adoption decide that they want the child back. Do you feel that you'll regret this decision later and seek to get Kiwi back? Both Eldon and I understand that you have yet to tell your parents and wish you all the luck in telling them about your pregnancy. But, our concern is that when you tell your parents about Kiwi and the adoption they will want you to keep Kiwi. Will their insight and opinions on Kiwi and the adoption sway you in any way? Should your parents support the adoption, would they want visitation as well?

[Sweetdey26]

   You hear about women who put their children up for adoption and then some time later after the adoption decide that they want the child back. Do you feel that you'll regret this decision later and seek to get Kiwi back? Both Eldon and I understand that you have yet to tell your parents and wish you all the luck in telling them about your pregnancy. But, our concern is that when you tell your parents about Kiwi and the adoption they will want you to keep Kiwi. Will their insight and opinions on Kiwi and the adoption sway you in any way? Should your parents support the adoption, would they want visitation as well?

Well, although I'm a minor the choice to give Kiwi up is mine and the birth father's. As I had said before, I have to do what is best for Kiwi, having two teen parents who love each other sounds great in my fairytale, but babies need more than just love. They cost money, they need food, milk, diapers, medicine, clothes, bottles, etc. I'll be 18 years old in September. I can barely take care of a pregnant me!  I refuse to put Kiwi or Blake through a life where in the end one or both of them will feel short-changed. I know, that if Blake and I have a future that it includes an education and a chance to make something of the life God give us.  Blake understands where I stand and knows that after Kiwi is born, signing the papers and walking away won't be easy, but in the end we will have time to grow and to learn what it is to truly give of yourself.

My parents will not change my mind. As Kiwi's birth mother I have made the right choice, when and if I do tell my parents. They will support me, I know that.

[audrieajones]

u have a good head on your shoulders

[oddball011]

ok , Im not really sure how the contest works

[Dese]

oddball the contest is in the contest section here

[Sweetdey26]

Thanks Dese!