Thanks Engram, I was sure I was way under the limit.  At the time it happened I had 2 adult sims (pregnant mom), 1 teen and the 2 critters. Then Sarah had her pups and the trouble began.  The pup didn't really "disappear" so to speak.  I was able to follow it (one of the times) and it seems that it was being called to leave the lot; it went through rabbit hole 

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 I knew the anticipation thing was a little far-fetched but I couldn't figure out why it corrected after I used the cheat file.   Now I hope the families I gave the pups away to don't have issues.  
The problem seemed to have been solved but I haven't played that house lately.  I will keep an eye out as you suggest. 
