Wasn't sure how I was going to accommodate your lanky guy/redhaired girl situation, and then I remembered the Magic Keumungo hacked object I found a little while back.  It quashes the jealousy reactions on a lot.  Voila!  Problem solved!   

  I have a feeling SimJenna is going to be a very happy, though somewhat sleep deprived, sim.  Thanks so much for offering this up for our gaming enjoyment.