Problem with marriage?

[savemykissesx]

My sim just grew into an adult, and he and this girl are really close, and in love, etc. We're really high on relationship level, and normally I get the option to have her move in before I get the engagement one, but I didn't get the move in one, and I had them get engaged, but now I don't have the option to marriage or to have her move in.. I don't understand it. Can anyone help?

[tellmewhatyoumeant]

I've had this problem before with InTeen...If you have it, uninstall it. Then check in-game and see if it works.

If you don't have InTeen...What other hacks do have?

[savemykissesx]

I do have inteen but i've taken it out and don't have it ingame at the moment. n i'm pretty sure the only other ones i have are "seethemall" hacks and the "pregnancy wear all" hacks.. i wanted other ones but haven't gotten them yet

[tellmewhatyoumeant]

Hmmm...So, you haven't been ingame without InTeen, or you have?

[ancienthighway]

Is the girl still a teen?  Default game behavior prohibits romantic interactions, to include the propose menu options, between adults and teens.  (I'm not sure how you got the engagement option.)  There are mods available, to include the Inteenimater, that change this.  Since you are currently playing without the Inteenimater, your best bet it to age the girl to adult.  That should bring back the "missing behaviors".

DeliaLili, the problem you had with Inteenimater for a similar issue in your game is not being completely familiar with the Inteenimater documentation and what the Flavor Packs will do to alter that behavior.  Take another look at documentation for both.  You'll find that with Inteenimater you can get exactly the behavior you want in your game.

[jase439]

Hmmm...So, you haven't been ingame without InTeen, or you have?

I just love it when people become hell-bent on blaming InTeen for every woe, even when it's not in the game. :brain:

[savemykissesx]

Inteen is NOT in the game, and the girl isn't a teenager, and I have the male sim, not the female one. but she isn't a teenager.
My computer restarted last night without giving me a chance to save my game, so at the moment.. i don't even think they're in love or anything, i don't even think he is an adult, which sucks.. i'm disappointed

[dobydog]

Well.. If you really want them to be in love again, you could download the Insimenator on the download page and use the relationship adjustors to make them in love again. Or, you could do it the correct way and start their relationship from scratch. Good luck

[savemykissesx]

I did, but with another sim this time and again, i got the engagement and marriage proposal but i can't move her in.. this is weird

[ancienthighway]

Are these just normal townie sims or are they a special sim?  I know that while it's possible to have relationships with the DMA sims, to include marriage, they will never move in with you.  That's just the way they were coded.

There's something about dormies, too, but it's been so long since I've played Uni, I don't remember what it is.  I'm pretty sure a playable YA cannot marry or move in if asked by someone in the main neighborhood.  You have to have the YA finish school or drop out and return to the neighborhood first.

If neither of these possibilities exist, pull your downloads folder and savedsims folder out of the game and try it again.  Everything working then would mean a hack is blocking your actions.  You'll have to find it and decide what is more important, the hack or the marriage/move in.

[savemykissesx]

I'm pretty sure they are just normal townies.. i mean, this is the first time i'm trying to move someone in since i've opened a business on my lot.. does that make a difference ?

[ancienthighway]

Does that mean you are on a community lot or a residential lot with a home business?  I've had plenty of home businesses where the owner got married to customers.

It might be time to move your mods/hacks out of the game and see if it works.

[MissDoh]

I doubt you can move in a sim while playing a business lot unless the business is in a residential lot.

[ancienthighway]

Exactly.  You can get engaged on community lots, but not marry (without mods) or move in.  "Opened a business on my lot" sounds like a residential lot though.

[MissDoh]

I wonder if you can get engaged, married or move a Sim in while the residiential  business is open though?

And of course, if after all it is a community business lot, you simply can't.