You can find the mesh
FREE, no sign-up required, here:
http://paysites.mustbedestroyed.org/booty/peggy/femalehair/scroll down, it's actually # female_0470.jpg here, you can view the pic to double-check (i did) and then the download link is right after.
This site has all/most of paysite contents, as it is illegal to charge for content per EA/Maxis - honest!!