I did get a hold of a change that fixes the custom hair issue you mentioned, and actually will replace it with a trait for alienism using the default alien skin.  At http://thesporum.net/smf/, see Tuna's Tweaks found under Hacks.  Thanks guys - I appreciate the help. 

I have all EP's, sorry, I should have mentioned that.  I have all of those you listed, good cook, werewolves, plantsims, etc.  I just think it would be nice to have more of a selection.  Or maybe some more realistic choices. 

Has anyone given any thought to some new attraction traits?  I mean, brown hair, glasses, hats - these are just boring.  How about attraction traits for sims having money/wealth, interests in computers/technology, someone who likes books/reading, a sims that has a college degree/or is a business owner, the paranormal, or even someone with criminal tendencies?  How about one for skintone? You could do light, medium, dark, or custom? Kind of like the hairs.  Or even for someone that likes to dance or is a good dancer?  There is always the attraction for some one interested in having children, or a LOT of children.  It seems like this is an area that has been overlooked, or maybe it is just to difficult because I have search a lot of sites and have only found one attraction trait download, and it is, well, more for ADULTS.  What do you think?