There's some stuff here
http://omegassims3stuff.blogspot.com/
Some base game hair conversions here
http://modthesims.info/d/432042
A Skirt
http://modthesims.info/d/418465
Also Peggy and Rose make 'unisex' hair- but some of the styles are a bit more feminine, some are free and some are pay
http://www.rosesims2.net/sims3/hair/rose_sims3_hair01.htm
http://www.peggyzone.com/